Evelynn, 40

looking for a serious relatonship I would really like to find a special man for dating and openness for what may develop. I want that connection with him to have a balance of attraction and chemistry. He would be lots of fun to be around. He would be easy going yet serious when the time calls for it. He is very intellectual but still enjoys being silly and can laugh at campy humor. I'd like a man that'll be ready to pamper me and take care of me. Who is not self centered and will respect my intention and ability. He is intriguing, genuine, caring, passionate, and -------. I do not mind if he has been married or was in as serious relationship before. That is so long as he is over it and has learned from the past.. He lives in the now with desire for something better in the future. I do not mind if he has children. I understand and respect the significance of a father's role. I know because I have a great pop. However, despite him having responsibility and time to possibly children, a career, family, and friends - I want someone who wants and is open to a relationship. I do not want him to be in a race to get their either. Patience please. Time will tell and compatibility will set our pace. He would not just want a position filled. I want him to want me. He would make time for us despite the craziest of schedules and also respect my schedule regardless of how clumsy it might be. He would crave quality time over quantity if it were all we had. I want someone who needs me as much as I might need him. Everyone has issues and hardships develop but he would not run away from them or hide them. Rather he would let me help or simply support him in what ever way I could and vice versa. I'd like him to be someone who would become my best friend as well as lover